THE HURT TRIANGLE! All of 3..we need advice and help!?

First of all this entire thing seems stupid a guy far away is never the answer. Any way i think you should not blame your self because it is in no way your fault and you have done nothing to provoke it. So just trust me on this it's not your fault forget about it and let them work it out. You don't want to get in the middle of it you seem to be safe as it is so just stay where you are and don't get further involved in the triangle of bullshit.